Guide for new parents

How to Create the Perfect Baby Shower List

Plan the enxoval with confidence, avoid repeated gifts, and make it easy for every guest to contribute with useful presents for the baby and the family.

16 min readUpdated: January 2025

Guide for new parents

Why have an online baby shower list?

Preparing for a new baby is exciting and overwhelming at the same time. Between clothes in different sizes, diaper stock, hygiene kits, furniture, and accessories, the enxoval quickly reaches hundreds of items. Without a central list it is easy to end up with 15 newborn bodysuits and zero pacifiers or burp cloths.

Online lists solve the chaos: you organize every product by category and phase, define how many units you need, and your guests instantly know what is still available. They can buy wherever they prefer, compare prices, and still mark the gift as reserved so you avoid duplicates.

This guide shows you how to plan the enxoval step by step, from mapping essentials to sharing the final list. We added gift ideas, practical tips from experienced moms, and answers to the most common questions so you can focus on enjoying the celebration.

Step-by-step: building your baby shower list

01

Create your free account

Sign up on MyWishlist with your best email and start the baby shower list or even a separate diaper list. You can co-manage the same account with your partner or a family member.

  • Enable notifications so you receive an alert when someone reserves a gift
  • Add a profile photo with the belly or ultrasound to make the list more personal
02

List the essentials first

Before adding links, write down everything you consider indispensable. Think about clothes by size, diaper stock per phase, bath items, hygiene, feeding, room decor, and outings.

  • Ask friends who recently became mothers for the items they used the most
  • Check the season the baby will be in each size to choose fabrics correctly
  • Keep a separate section for the mother's postpartum needs
03

Organize by category and size

Guests get less confused when the list is clearly divided. Create sections for clothes, diapers, hygiene, bath, feeding, nursery, and travel. Mention the exact size in every clothing item.

  • Limit newborn pieces—babies often outgrow them in a couple of weeks
  • Include specific diaper counts for each size to avoid guesswork
  • Use the description field to indicate colors or prints you prefer
04

Define smart quantities

Babies grow fast, so quantity planning is essential. Use realistic numbers based on the average time they spend in each size and on how often you plan to do laundry.

  • Newborn: a few pieces and only 2 diaper packs
  • Size P: moderate amount of clothes and around 5 diaper packs
  • Size M and G: larger stock, since these phases last longer
05

Offer multiple price ranges

Include affordable items such as diaper cream or bibs, mid-range gifts like blankets and décor, and premium items like strollers, cribs, or breastfeeding chairs. Everyone can participate without pressure.

  • Group small accessories so guests can build cute kits
  • Create quotas for expensive furniture so multiple people can contribute
  • Remember to add experiences like newborn photos if that matters to you
06

Add pictures and detailed notes

Photos and descriptions reduce questions and avoid wrong sizes or colors. Mention preferred materials for clothing, diaper brands, or special needs like hypoallergenic products.

  • Clarify if you prefer anti-colic bottles or specific nipples
  • Indicate whether hygiene products need to be fragrance-free
  • For clothes, add sleeve length and whether you prefer footies
07

Personalize the list

Choose colors that match the baby shower theme, write a welcome message, and share a short story about the baby. It makes every guest feel closer to your family.

  • Include pregnancy cravings or fun moments in the description
  • Add milestones like the due date to build excitement
  • Use a cute emoji or icon in section titles for easier scanning
08

Share and keep updating

Send the link with the invitations, post a QR code near the entrance of the party, and ask close friends to remind everyone to check the list before buying. Remove items you already received outside the platform.

  • Create a WhatsApp group for madrinhas and share the link there
  • Send a friendly reminder one week before the event
  • After each reservation, update priorities or add replacements

Gift ideas for baby shower lists

Use these curated categories to remember the essentials for each phase of the first year.

Clothing by size

  • Bodysuits with short and long sleeves
  • Footed onesies for sleeping
  • Soft pants and leggings
  • Light jackets or cardigans
  • Socks, mittens, and hats
  • Receiving blankets and swaddles
  • Going-home outfits
  • Seasonal pieces (swimwear or coats)

Diapers & hygiene

  • Disposable diapers (RN, P, M, G, XG)
  • Wipes and cotton squares
  • Diaper rash cream
  • Baby-safe soap and shampoo
  • Nasal aspirator and thermometer
  • Nail care kit
  • Changing pads and liners
  • Portable changing mat

Bath time

  • Baby bathtub with support
  • Hooded towels and washcloths
  • Thermometer for water temperature
  • Bath toys and organizers
  • Soft hairbrush and comb
  • Storage baskets
  • Rinse cup
  • Non-slip bath mat

Feeding & lactation

  • Anti-colic bottles (different sizes)
  • Bottle brushes and drying racks
  • Sterilizer or microwave bags
  • Burp cloths and bibs
  • Breastfeeding pillow
  • Milk storage bags
  • Food processor or blender
  • First utensils and training cups

Nursery & sleep

  • Crib or co-sleeper
  • Mattress and protectors
  • Sheets and blankets
  • Nightlight or projector
  • Mobile or wall decor
  • Closet organizers
  • Baby monitor
  • Humidifier or white-noise machine

Outings & travel

  • Infant car seat
  • Stroller or travel system
  • Baby carrier or sling
  • Diaper backpack
  • Portable bassinet or playard
  • Car sunshades
  • Stroller organizers
  • Rain cover and mosquito net

Tips from experienced parents

Prioritize larger clothing sizes

Newborn and size P outfits are worn for a few weeks. Add more options in sizes M and G so the baby stays dressed comfortably for months.

Balance diaper quantities

Request only a couple of RN packs, a moderate amount of size P, and larger quantities for sizes M and G, which last much longer.

Think about the climate

Map the season for each clothing size. Babies born in summer still reach size M during autumn or winter. Include layers and fabrics accordingly.

Add items for the mother

Include nursing bras, breast pads, comfortable pajamas, or spa vouchers. Guests love taking care of the parents too.

Test before requesting multiples

Every baby has preferences. Try one bottle or pacifier before asking for six of the same brand.

Separate diaper-only events

If you plan a diaper shower in addition to the baby shower, create a dedicated list so the quantities are easier to track.

Update after pediatric visits

Doctors often suggest new items during prenatal appointments. Adjust the list frequently to reflect what you really need.

Baby shower FAQ

When should I publish the list?+

Ideally between the fifth and sixth month of pregnancy. This gives you enough time to adjust the items and allows guests to shop calmly before the party.

How many items should a baby shower list have?+

Depending on the number of guests, a complete list usually has 80 to 150 products. Remember that many items require multiple units, such as diapers, wipes, and onesies.

Can I create a list for twins?+

Yes. Add double quantities for clothes, diapers, bottles, and accessories, and mention when an item can be shared between the babies (for example, a single bath or changing table).

Do guests see who booked a present?+

Guests only see whether an item is still available. Contact details are visible only for you, so you can follow up and say thank you.

Is it okay to include big-ticket gifts?+

Absolutely. Add strollers, cribs, or nursery furniture. If the price is high, create quotas so groups of friends can contribute together.

Should I create a separate diaper list?+

If you plan a diaper-only event, a dedicated list helps track quantities. Otherwise, keep everything in one place and clearly label diaper sizes within the main list.

Explore the baby shower list showcase

Learn how the baby shower template works, what guests see, and how to organize essential items by category.

Guide for new parents

Ready to create your baby shower list?

Thousands of parents use MyWishlist to organize the enxoval, receive exactly what they need, and thank each guest. Everything is free and updated in real time.